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50 Simple Ways to Have the Best Sex of Your Life
by Hq 1 Year agoApplicable to all forms of sexual activity, including sexting, masturbation, and partner sex:
- Learn about the erogenous areas, which include the inner thighs, ears, neck, small of the back, and toes.
- Don't yuck anyone's yum: You could be shocked when a partner confides in you about a kink or dream, but discuss it, give it some thought, and engage if you feel comfortable doing so. It might even end up being yours too!
- Buy yourself some fancy lube (we recommend this one; while you're at it, pick up our fave vibrator).
- Invest in some of your favourite underwear to feel gorgeous and confident.
- Read sexual stories at Literotica; they have all the varieties you can think of and more.
- Create a playlist of seductive songs with your lover to set the mood each time.
- Lock the door if you have roommates or are a parent!
- Take sexy photos to boost your self-confidence.
- Spread out a towel to make cleanup and post-sex considerably simpler.
- Post accounts, pictures, and videos that you find attractive on social media (anyone who follows Harry Styles on Instagram knows that sexual content doesn't have to be pornographic!)
- Place a cushion beneath your hips. Big difference from a small modification!
- If shower sex wasn't as exciting as it appears in movies, don't freak out. Instead, try post-shower sex!
- To set the tone, take in a non-sexual television programme or movie.
- Read a hot book before a date or spend your alone time indulging in Netflix instead.
- Put persistent enjoyment ahead of a climax (which will eventually happen!).
- Discover new fetishes and quirks
- Have sex when on your menstruation, no joke.
- Put the foreplay first
- Check out audio erotica to get in the mood
With a companion
- Discuss your preferences with a partner before having sex.
- Try a motion you saw in a movie or television show you both watched
- Touching yourself while having sex is hot for them and wonderful for you!
- Discuss your standout moment from a nighttime session the next morning.
- If you just have time for a quickie, send quick, explicit texts throughout the day to help with foreplay and to get you in the mood.
- If you've been dating for a while, make out like you're still in high school to relive your tumultuous days.
- Create a code word for sex. For example, "I'm excited to go home and mix our own drinks" may imply "Take me home and ravage me as soon as possible."
- Attempt mutual sex
- When you can, maintain eye contact throughout sex.
- Don't dismiss a quickie; occasionally, it's more about the physical connection than mind-blowing sex.
- Express yourself when something hurts and when something feels fantastic.
- Start foreplay outside of the bedroom with a kiss at dinner or a sexual text while at work, for example.
- After sex, it's vital to check in with yourself and/or your partner, notice how your body is feeling, practise good hygiene, and so on.
- Don't be hesitant to take the lead
- Have sex while looking in the mirror.
- Give your nipples a massage! Hint: Nipple-play is all that is necessary to experience an orgasm.
- Provide examples of what you want your lover to perform in the bedroom via text message.
- Tell your spouse what makes you feel good, but also find out what makes them feel good!
- Try out a different oral sex position.
- Try using condoms with ribs.
- Pay attention to non-sexual touch to increase intimacy outside of the bedroom (which will also increase intimacy during sex)!
Solo
- Be sure to plug in and charge your vibe in the morning to ensure that it will be fully charged that night and to serve as a little seductive reminder to yourself that you can indulge yourself that night.
- Experiment with different times of the day to masturbate, such as at your lunch break, immediately following work, before the gym, and after the gym.
- Before using your toy, test it under hot and cold water if it is waterproof.
- Experiment with simultaneously stimulating various locations, such as the clitoris with a vibrator while your fingers are inside you, the vagina and the anus, or the erogenous zone and the clitoris.
- Go on a date with yourself; you'll be shocked at how seductive you'll feel after some alone time.
- Try a different masturbation position; the hip-bridge, cowgirl, and doggie style are ideal starting points.
- Buy a new vibrator and you'll thank us later.
- Shut the shades and windows, perhaps put on some music or a performance, and start screaming.
- Pay attention to various sections of the clitoris to determine which feels more pleasurable when attempting to achieve a clitoral orgasm. Try holding your vibrator in both vertical and horizontal positions, pinching and rubbing it with two fingers, or making circles and up-and-down motions.
- Schedule it: Even if it's just for you, schedule some time in your day to feel wonderful!