Applicable to all forms of sexual activity, including sexting, masturbation, and partner sex:
Learn about the erogenous areas, which include the inner thighs, ears, neck, small of the back, and toes.
Don't yuck anyone's yum: You could be shocked when a partner confides in you about a kink or dream, but discuss it, give it some thought, and engage if you feel comfortable doing so. It might even end up being yours too!
Buy yourself some fancy lube (we recommend this one; while you're at it, pick up our fave vibrator).
Invest in some of your favourite underwear to feel gorgeous and confident.
Read sexual stories at Literotica; they have all the varieties you can think of and more.
Create a playlist of seductive songs with your lover to set the mood each time.
Lock the door if you have roommates or are a parent!
Take sexy photos to boost your self-confidence.
Spread out a towel to make cleanup and post-sex considerably simpler.
Post accounts, pictures, and videos that you find attractive on social media (anyone who follows Harry Styles on Instagram knows that sexual content doesn't have to be pornographic!)
Place a cushion beneath your hips. Big difference from a small modification!
If shower sex wasn't as exciting as it appears in movies, don't freak out. Instead, try post-shower sex!
To set the tone, take in a non-sexual television programme or movie.
Read a hot book before a date or spend your alone time indulging in Netflix instead.
Put persistent enjoyment ahead of a climax (which will eventually happen!).
Discover new fetishes and quirks
Have sex when on your menstruation, no joke.
Put the foreplay first
Check out audio erotica to get in the mood
With a companion
Discuss your preferences with a partner before having sex.
Try a motion you saw in a movie or television show you both watched
Touching yourself while having sex is hot for them and wonderful for you!
Discuss your standout moment from a nighttime session the next morning.
If you just have time for a quickie, send quick, explicit texts throughout the day to help with foreplay and to get you in the mood.
If you've been dating for a while, make out like you're still in high school to relive your tumultuous days.
Create a code word for sex. For example, "I'm excited to go home and mix our own drinks" may imply "Take me home and ravage me as soon as possible."
Attempt mutual sex
When you can, maintain eye contact throughout sex.
Don't dismiss a quickie; occasionally, it's more about the physical connection than mind-blowing sex.
Express yourself when something hurts and when something feels fantastic.
Start foreplay outside of the bedroom with a kiss at dinner or a sexual text while at work, for example.
After sex, it's vital to check in with yourself and/or your partner, notice how your body is feeling, practise good hygiene, and so on.
Don't be hesitant to take the lead
Have sex while looking in the mirror.
Give your nipples a massage! Hint: Nipple-play is all that is necessary to experience an orgasm.
Provide examples of what you want your lover to perform in the bedroom via text message.
Tell your spouse what makes you feel good, but also find out what makes them feel good!
Try out a different oral sex position.
Try using condoms with ribs.
Pay attention to non-sexual touch to increase intimacy outside of the bedroom (which will also increase intimacy during sex)!
Solo
Be sure to plug in and charge your vibe in the morning to ensure that it will be fully charged that night and to serve as a little seductive reminder to yourself that you can indulge yourself that night.
Experiment with different times of the day to masturbate, such as at your lunch break, immediately following work, before the gym, and after the gym.
Before using your toy, test it under hot and cold water if it is waterproof.
Experiment with simultaneously stimulating various locations, such as the clitoris with a vibrator while your fingers are inside you, the vagina and the anus, or the erogenous zone and the clitoris.
Go on a date with yourself; you'll be shocked at how seductive you'll feel after some alone time.
Try a different masturbation position; the hip-bridge, cowgirl, and doggie style are ideal starting points.
Buy a new vibrator and you'll thank us later.
Shut the shades and windows, perhaps put on some music or a performance, and start screaming.
Pay attention to various sections of the clitoris to determine which feels more pleasurable when attempting to achieve a clitoral orgasm. Try holding your vibrator in both vertical and horizontal positions, pinching and rubbing it with two fingers, or making circles and up-and-down motions.
Schedule it: Even if it's just for you, schedule some time in your day to feel wonderful!
